Happy Birthday Sam Ormes

My good friend, Sam Ormes, turned 80 this week! He is an amazing guy. Happy Birthday Sam!

One of the benefits of being a journalist is that you get to meet fascinating people and Sam Ormes is one of the most colorful and delightful that I’ve met.

While doing research inside the Miami Dade County jail for my book about mental illness, I happened on a tiny cubicle that was crammed with electronic gizmos. I thought that Sam might have been a hoarder because nearly every inch of the space was taken-up by television equipment, cameras, video tapes and stage props, including a rubber chicken hanging on a rope from the ceiling.

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Thinking of Others

Patti and I were fortunate during the holidays because six of our seven children  — that’s right seven —  were able to be with us.  Patti was a widow with four young children when we met. I was recently divorced with three of my own.  Blending two families hasn’t always been easy, but as I watched everyone having a wonderful time, I felt proud — especially of Mike. Two years ago, we were dealing with his fourth serious  breakdown. Now, he is doing great and recently became a peer to peer specialist. I am so proud of him.
Of course, remembering what we were going through, made me think of other families who were in crisis during the holidays. A few days later, I received an email from a NAMI friend.  I asked her if I could post her note on my blog and she agreed after I promised to change the names. What this family is experiencing is all too common. It’s a reminder to all of us that even when our loved ones are well, there are others who still need help and support.

A New Website!

Welcome to my redesigned website and my very first blog entry!

This new design was completed by Tony and Evan, two of my five sons. My original site was created by Tony and a friend, Ryan, nearly a decade ago when they were both in high school. (Yep, they were teenagers when they created it!)  During the past several years, Tony has revised my site and added many new features. But this is the first complete overhaul.

I love it and hope you do too!

One of the improvements is the addition of this blog. Evan, who graduates this year from Virginia Tech, has warned me that blogs should not be diaries. Instead, they should be used to share useful information. I’ll be following Evan’s advice in the coming days by posting some personal items, but mostly writing about mental health, espionage, publishing, and the joy and frustration of being an author.

Although Evan and Tony, who now is a commercial real estate appraiser in Fairfax County, didn’t believe it was still necessary, I am keeping my original guestbook – which now can be found under the title: FEEDBACK . I want readers to be able to sign in and leave comments.

I’ll start posting blog entries on Monday, January 4th, and am planning on putting a new entry on the blog every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday.

Thanks for visiting and for your support.

Now let’s get started.