Joe and his wife, Amy, lived in Caratunk, a picturesque town of about 110 residents nestled in the state’s northern hills. Joe is a rugged, friendly man, who worked as a senior technician for the Maine Department of Transportation before retiring several years ago. Amy, served as the town’s treasurer. Their son, William – known as Willy – is the oldest of three boys. The family lived in a 100-year-old farmhouse that sits near the banks of a winding, rock-strewn stream.Although cute and energetic as a child, Willy was hyperactive and deeply self-centered, and he could turn violent without warning. When he was only four, he pushed his younger brother down the stairs. At five, he broke that same brother’s leg.
As an adolescent, Willy was handsome, popular with girls — and also deeply troubled. He attempted suicide at age 14.
Willy’s behavior particularly pained his mother. Tanned and athletic, Amy loved kids, often hugging her own and opening her home to neighborhood children. But despite her best efforts, she was seldom able to emotionally connect with her eldest son.
After dropping out of high school, getting his equivalency degree and serving a stint in the Army, Willy bounced among low-level jobs and had a few minor brushes with the law.
Willy refused to go into treatment, and his family couldn’t insist because Maine laws require a person to be dangerous before they can be involuntarily committed to a hospital.
In March 2005, after Willy threatened two men with a loaded AK-47 assault rifle — a judge sent him to a psychiatric facility in Bangor. He was eventually released but stopped taking his medicine and quickly deteriorated again.
By this point, Joe and Amy had started to lose hope. Their son was a very sick young man. The hospital psychiatrist, Jeffrey Fliesser, wrote that Willy was hostile, paranoid and should not be released to the public until his symptoms changed.
“We knew he was going to be released and we were scared,” Joe recalled.
At this point, advocates employed by the Maine Disability Rights Center, which receives funding from the federal government, got involved.
His psychiatrists noted that Willy was “very dangerous indeed for release to the community” and strongly objected to having him discharged.
Willy was found by a Maine judge to be “not criminally responsible” for murdering his mother because of his mental illness, and was ordered held indefinitely at the very psychiatric hospital that had released him.
Through a lawyer, Joe was able to obtain his son’s medical records. “I read through the records and I just remember crying all the way through,” he later told The Wall Street Journal. “My God, these people knew exactly what they were sending home to us.”
Like Nick and Amanda Wilcox (see Wednesday’s blog) Joe became an advocate and succeeded in getting three laws in Maine changed, including one that requires hospitals to warn family members if a patient poses a danger and is being released.
Just yesterday, Maine became the 44th state to pass an AOT law, which I have written about before on these pages, thanks, in part, to Joe’s lobbying.





